I started a new job where there are three other Sarahs. And so my middle name, Donghee, is printed on every ticket (I work in a restaurant) in order to decipher between all of us. I said to the other Sarah, I’m not used to seeing my middle name so much.
I’m cueing people to think my name is weird by being weird about how I share it.
but that’s what I’m trying to do, rather than taking responsibility for my self-respect.
Responsibility is a word that's thrown around and it's so easy just to have an understanding of what it means. But there's all these subways that it plays out in existence that you don't stop and think of as – responsibility
“This Libra Full Moon is a time to let go of our co-dependent habits that inhibit our ability to show up authentically as ourself. Let go of the habits and the cycles that have us seeking external validation. Stop dimming your light. Stop not being your full self because you think it might make someone else uncomfortable. Stop being uncomfortable when that’s not your responsiblity. Stop personalizing what isn’t yours.” This part is hitting home as Im currently in a situation where I chose my co-dependent desire over my authentic needs. The yearning for independence grows stronger every time I practice discernment though. Such a journey. Thank you!
Hi Sarah,
These two lines
I’m cueing people to think my name is weird by being weird about how I share it.
but that’s what I’m trying to do, rather than taking responsibility for my self-respect.
Responsibility is a word that's thrown around and it's so easy just to have an understanding of what it means. But there's all these subways that it plays out in existence that you don't stop and think of as – responsibility
“This Libra Full Moon is a time to let go of our co-dependent habits that inhibit our ability to show up authentically as ourself. Let go of the habits and the cycles that have us seeking external validation. Stop dimming your light. Stop not being your full self because you think it might make someone else uncomfortable. Stop being uncomfortable when that’s not your responsiblity. Stop personalizing what isn’t yours.” This part is hitting home as Im currently in a situation where I chose my co-dependent desire over my authentic needs. The yearning for independence grows stronger every time I practice discernment though. Such a journey. Thank you!